How can I change my life?

Dear 

You have a particular way of living. You want to talk about it. 

We do not see that it is impossible to change just one aspect of one’s behavior and let other aspects remain the same. There are many ways in which the pattern of our mind finds expression, a thousand ways. Right? Of these thousand ways, a few pertain to my academics, a few pertain to my job, a few pertain to my beliefs about the world, about religion, about politics. But of all these thousand ways in which the mind finds expression, I pick up only two or three for discussion. 

Which are these two or three ways? The ones that are the most conspicuous. Right? I do not talk of the others ways because they are either hidden, or are pleasurable so far, or at least they don’t pose any problem of any kind. Even a moral dilemma is not being posed by them. They are either socially sanctioned, or they are below the radar of your consciousness. You do not even know that these patterns exist and they come from this source. So, you are alright with them. You never talk about them. 

For more clarity, I invite you to: prashantadvait.com/2015/04/20/why-cant-...

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